When we become accusational, we often accuse others of the very things we’re guilty of ourselves. That would explain why we feel so committed to judging wrong doings we believe of others. Are you further aware that another word for The Devil is: ‘The accuser’?
The problem here lies in our failure to express forgiveness or compassion for our fellow man/woman/child! Also, the perpetrator is thinking irrationally because, at the very least, inducing fear, is not the way to persuade a loyal friend to co-operate with your wishes.
Some in fact, are so removed from the feelings and dreams of others, that they have forgotten how to communicate their feelings on the matter, in any diplomatic or tactful way what-so-ever. ‘To kill the bug, we must understand the bug!’ – Star ship Troopers.
If it’s illogical to ignore what others are saying, do the opposite, and truly listen to what they have to say. And instead of picking faults, look for opportunities to know them better. Look at their weaknesses as all the more reason you’re around to help, and see if your anger doesn’t evaporate into thin air! Just love! Love IS the answer!
‘If at first you don’t succeed, to Hell with it!’ Some people just have very low tolerance levels. It’s their job to avoid confrontations, at the risk of ripping out their own eye-balls! Either you need a caffeine fix, or you’re working at the wrong job… Perhaps book-worms and public servants just don’t mix…
What ails you, is that you can never seem to get your point across. The point is NOT that the entire planet has suddenly lost its I.Q. It’s certainly true that some people actually explain things backwards, or at least sideways, so that people never quite grasp your meaning it would seem. The answer is, they do, but they just don’t care! I know because I’m this very type of maniac myself…
In my case, I think I hate how the world has become! So I express my upset at the matter, in the form of a conniption fit… Don’t you get it? Now you look like part of what you wanna fix! Brother! ‘Green-Peace’ is looking for people just like you! And rage is a great recipe for a heart attack! So nobody wants to attack City Hall with you.
The answer is one hour of meditation per day; that is, thinking of nothing, relaxing completely, in absolute silence, or listening to soft meditation music found anywhere on the Internet. You are really wired Man! You can take my advice, or you will pop! You’re what the world affectionately refers to as ‘High stung…’
You should never sweat the small stuff! Most things usually rectify themselves over time, I find… So your cell phone is acting up. Your problem is in not being able to let go, eventually to become an obsessive, compulsive something or other!
Learn to walk away! Occupy yourself with something else, and tackle the problem when you can either do more research, or find someone who knows more than you; like a computer Guru perhaps?
I know how difficult it can be to have a constant irritant in your life! Only buy name brand items! LOL! Does it take an oncoming freight train to tell you that you need to remove yourself from the situation mentally!
You need to tell yourself a lot of convincing things to remove your short fuse from your environment. In Layman’s terms, do ya like Disneyland?